It is so unfortunate, that one one is talking about the men exploitation of underage girls/married women and less privilege boys in our society, how our men actions have lead to the decay of morals, Such actions have indeed taken a negative consequences in individuals and society as a whole, This practical action by our men over the years, have gradually eroded our ethical principles, values and social norms in the area of relationships leaving our marriage in shambles.
Our women did not just start demanding money from men if the men did not show them they could give them such money for nothing, if you ask me, men buying cars, building houses, buying houses. paying for trips for women etc and young teenagers did not start today, how come our anger is on a young girl who stated the obvious that has been with us over the years, is so sad that 50% of these men can not do what they are doing for these girls for their family members, what an irresponsibility. These men have deprived the younger men of the opportunity of being with the women they love with their money, yet these young men have left their real enemy to face Saidaboj.
The action of who have the money cut the shut has taken centre stage of our society, when men uses material power to lure other men’s wives’ girlfriend to themselves, women with fact account keeps the younger men to themselves.is important we address these issues from where it started from and stop lying to ourselves and ensure the safety and well-being of those affected .
Exploitative behavior, such as using money, material possessions, and position to manipulate or coerce women into inappropriate relationships, is not only morally wrong but also illegal in any working jurisdictions, Laws must be enforced to protect vulnerable individuals from being exploited, but it is so unfortunate in a society like us that practices patriarchy in full can hardy address such issues to the root.
Such attitude strives in a Society with polygamy culture, most men in such environment, sees women only as a sex material and for reproduction purposes, it becomes difficult for men in such society to put in extra work in developing healthy relations because they have the mindset that women are for their pleasure, they only wants the women and always expect to have them. The only language they understand is give and take, such actions encourage transactional relationships, not love relationships. the only power men in our society have develop is material/money strength which they use over other men
Getting it right in such a society, should focus on educating people about healthy relationships, consent, and respect for others and boundaries.
By promoting values that prioritize mutual respect for both sex, and equality, we can work towards a more strong society where such exploitative practices are less likely to occur, people should, need people for who they are not what they are,
Furthermore, support systems should be in place to assist those girls/women who have been victims of exploitation. This includes providing access to counseling services, legal aid, helplines, shelters or safe houses for victims of abuse.
It is crucial that we collectively condemn exploitative behaviors while advocating for stronger laws. healthy relationship and social initiatives that protect vulnerable girls/women against big bag money men and societal bigwigs.
Men over the years men, have cultivated the culture of using money to change women, women in other hands, now realized that the men only want them for pleasures, if I can’t have him as mine he has to pay, the paying culture of relationship did not start with women , men initiated it, as their inability to build a healthy relationship.
Mind you no healthy relationship will ask you for money, but when you need her as a peep, you pay for peep
So why are our men calling out on Saidaboj? Is it because she is out playing them on their game.
