In contemporary Nigerian society, a disconcerting paradox emerges the simultaneous indulgence in and condemnation of behaviors deemed immoral by traditional standards, Our pretentious reality and self-acclaimed religious posture are killing, yet we forcefully take away people’s lives mandating them into societal set standards without considering their wish.
This phenomenon is particularly evident in the treatment of homosexuality and prostitution we as individuals promote, which, while often publicly denounced, we frequently engage with in secret. This duality raises critical questions about the moral fabric of our society, Nigeria’s society and the implications for future generations. those we constantly condemn, for asking questions, we easily get angry with them for understanding our actions but not taking our words.
Nigerian societies profess strong religious values, advocating for a lifestyle that aligns with conventional norms. However, beneath this veneer of piety lies a troubling reality that is who we are.
Numerous individuals in our society today, mostly the high and mighty participate in clandestine activities that contradict their proclaimed religious beliefs, engaging with the very practices they publicly scorn.
This hypocrisy not only undermines the integrity of societal values but also creates a culture of deception where authenticity is sacrificed for the sake of appearances.
No wonder fraud, 419 sells in Nigerian society, because an average Nigerian will buy what you sell to them not what or who you are.
The implications of such a hypocritical stance are particularly concerning for the younger generation. Growing up in a Nigerian environment that espouses one set of values while secretly endorsing another can lead to confusion and disillusionment.
Young people, observing the disparity between societal rhetoric and behaviour, may struggle to form their moral compass. They may internalize the notion that duplicity is acceptable, fostering a culture of insincerity and moral relativism, we can see the rising result in the lives of our GenZ, the report has it that Nigeria Genz is going overboard with their activities and behaviours, emanating from sociatal kind of values.
Moreover, this environment can perpetuate stigma and discrimination against marginalized groups, such as the LGBTQ+ community and sex workers. By failing to confront and address the underlying issues of prejudice and hypocrisy, society risks perpetuating cycles of shame and secrecy.
This not only harms those directly affected but also stunts the moral development of youth, who may adopt prejudiced attitudes without understanding the complexities of human experience.
The hypocrisy evident in Nigerian society’s treatment of homosexuality and prostitution poses significant challenges for future generations. The dissonance between public morality and private indulgence fosters an environment of confusion, pretenders and insincerity.
To cultivate a healthier society, we must confront these contradictions, and pretentious attitudes openly, fostering an atmosphere of acceptance and understanding that allows young people to develop a genuine sense of morality rooted in compassion rather than hypocrisy. Only then can we hope to build a more authentic and inclusive Nigeria future.
