Infidelity is a complex and often sensitive topic that can have serious implications on relationships and families, but we need to talk about it.

Infidelity as a thing globally, Nigeria is not left out, as in many other societies, infidelity is a prevalent issue that can cause significant emotional distress and turmoil.

To some, it has left them, deranged, depressed. lost of selves and lives, in most community culture and peoples way of life have a way of encouraging infidelity.

African culture to a larger extent has encourage infidelity in many ways,  with the phrase, ‘MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NARTURE’ This has instigated in the minds of some men that they are entitled to many wives provided they can take care of them, but the situation show that many men are with mindset that they are entitled to many  concubine and side chicks, which have not gone down well with some wives but they can’t do anything about the situation rather responding their own way, that way most times contradicts the wishes of their men.

Men feeling entitled to cheat and some women also engaging in similar behaviour has contribute to a arising culture of infidelity.

This has create trust issues, resentment, and emotional pain within relationships. The use of DNA testing to determine paternity has become more common in Nigeria system today .  the seriousness of infidelity and its impact on families, is even more on men, as they find it difficult to handle, one will be wondering why will men  find it difficult to handle infidelity from their partner when they are more into it.

Infidelity can have far-reaching consequences, including the breakdown of trust, the loss of intimacy, and the potential dissolution of a relationship or marriage, leaving their children at the receiving end.

It is important for individuals to communicate openly and honestly with their partners, address any underlying issues that may be contributing to infidelity, apologies,  and seek professional help if needed to navigate through the challenges that arise from such situations.

Building a foundation of trust, respect, and communication in relationships is crucial in addressing and preventing issues of infidelity.

It is important for both partners to work together to strengthen their bond and address any concerns or issues that may be leading to feelings of insecurity or the temptation that might lead to cheating